We were all standing, some female colleagues and I, waiting for the light to change. She said something, looked at me directly and as I smiled and said hello, she pulled tight on a thin silver wire wrapped around both hands, about a foot of slack between them. “I’d love to wrap this around your […]
Month: March 2018
I won’t waste another day living someone else’s way
I just got introduced to Mikey Mike. This guy sums it up best when he says, “…and my stomach nearly falls out of my butt within the first 10 seconds because the lyrics are so resonant and prophetic.” Put this on repeat. Meet Mikey Mike: I was walkin’ ’round the neighbourhood, with my mom And […]
Three
I chose three for 3 reasons: community, personal space, and intimacy. Loving as three people presented an opportunity to correct some of the pains of loving as two – the control, the expectations – and add layers of richness as it did. I felt like a relationship with three people had potential to be exponentially […]
The difference between judgement and discernment
Judgement is when we decide the value of someone or something based on our own assumptions or observations. Discernment is when we decide the value of someone or something TO OUR OWN LIVES and choose to embrace or ignore it. Judgement makes life smaller. Discernment makes life bigger. Judgement reduces value. Discernment raises and protects […]